Title: Gals Making the Moves
When it comes to affairs of the heart, I believe that both parties are equal in terms of who should make the first move.. Traditionally, it was seen to be the guy who should make the first move.. But guys can chicken out too, the fear of unknown is sometimes too great to handle..
And hence, gals should also be allowed to make the first moves too. But when they make that sacred moves, people view them as desperate.. Oh man! Can't the world see that if one party make the move, at least they are relieved of the constant unknown?
But when the gal makes the first move first, guys may(or may not) take them for granted. Because the guy feels that the gal probably wants him more than she wants him.. This is EGO.. For goodness sake, the gal makes the move because she just want to get it over and done with..
Sometimes, guys are also intimidated by gals who make the first move.. They fear that she may be too much to handle.. Well, these guys lack confidence then.. So if he lacks confidence, in the long run he is going to face the same problem too.. hence forget about this kind of guy..
Of course, the best scenario is the guy making the first move.. But guys either hesitate too long or take it too fast.. They are not the ladies so you know they may goof up sometimes. Forgive them, gals.. They are trying hard enough..
Well, that's about all I have to say... If you really feel for the person, go ahead and make the move.. Nevermind if you are a gal or a guy.. In love, everyone is equal..=)
And hence, gals should also be allowed to make the first moves too. But when they make that sacred moves, people view them as desperate.. Oh man! Can't the world see that if one party make the move, at least they are relieved of the constant unknown?
But when the gal makes the first move first, guys may(or may not) take them for granted. Because the guy feels that the gal probably wants him more than she wants him.. This is EGO.. For goodness sake, the gal makes the move because she just want to get it over and done with..
Sometimes, guys are also intimidated by gals who make the first move.. They fear that she may be too much to handle.. Well, these guys lack confidence then.. So if he lacks confidence, in the long run he is going to face the same problem too.. hence forget about this kind of guy..
Of course, the best scenario is the guy making the first move.. But guys either hesitate too long or take it too fast.. They are not the ladies so you know they may goof up sometimes. Forgive them, gals.. They are trying hard enough..
Well, that's about all I have to say... If you really feel for the person, go ahead and make the move.. Nevermind if you are a gal or a guy.. In love, everyone is equal..=)
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