Treasure life and live it fully!

Treasure Life & Live It Fully!

How would you feel if you already in advance that your loved one will depart from this life before you?

Do you feel the fear, the occasional sadness and the helplessness?

I do... Perhaps that's why I have never liked the idea of having the futures known...

Precisely because of this reason, I try my best to given advice on how best not to take unnecessary risks and to treasure life to the fullest...

As my age increases, I have realised that it is better to start taking care of our health in our 20s. That's why I apply sunblock on my face daily and put on shades when the sun is glaring...

The sun is the most helpful and yet the most harmful thing..
refer to the below links for more information on this...

http://www.nsc.org/ehc/sunsafe.htm
http://library.thinkquest.org/15215/Foe/damaging_health.html

By the time you have finished reading all this, the one keyword that keeps flashing by is " prevention is better than cure".

I find it extremely uncomfortable when I see people exposing to the scorching sun doing sports... The risk of getting damaged skin and other related effects are high... You may not believe me because you do not see the effects as of now... But by the time you see the effects, it will be too late to save it...

I am neither controlling and preventing you from doing what you will like to do... But seeing you expose yourself to such risks and not advising you, I really do not think that's my style...

However, I am also aware that the truth hurts... and often people may not like it...
I won't repeat myself, my point has been made and I closed my case...

Whatever decision or preventions or precautions that you ultimately choose, it is entirely to your health benefit not mine or anyone else...

If you love your life, treasure it and live it to the fullest!

I love you dear dear...

Looking Into The Future

Almost a year ago, a spiritual mentor told my good friends and I what lies in the future for us inclusive of everything from career, love to family...

I embarked on my new career with her advice and now I am not regretting it..
Neither do I regret getting together with my dear dear...

Dear dear, even if you were to leave a few years earlier before me, those decades of memories will be enough for me to keep me company throughout till my very last breath...

We have grown within a year and the bond between us has grown stronger and tighter with each passing day... The fights that we have just allowed us to understand each other deeper even though tears are shed...

It is such good fortune of mine and yours to be able to do 13 koras together in Nepal... It is even rarer to be able to go on meditation retreat with you to cultivate along this spiritual path...

Perhaps this is why the fortune teller says my good life has already started... It is my blessing to have found you, let me treasure every single day, every minute, every second with you around...

I love you dear dear...

My Dream Of The Death Of A Loved One

My Dream Of The Death Of A Loved One

I had a dream, or rather a nightmare... of my loved one leaving me and returning back in the form of a ghost to accompany me just for a day... It was incredibly real with all my friends around me and even that I myself knew that it was real... In the dream, I tried to convince myself that everything was unreal and soon things will be well...

But no matter how much time passed, everything still remains as it was... No one was able to feel my pain, my broken heart, my loss of a loved one... When the scenario changed to that of a funeral, I saw right before my eyes the photo and the coffin of my love... Refusing to believe my eyes, I gathered all my courage to look into the coffin...

Till now, I can never forget the kind of pain, loss and heartbroke feeling... It felt like someone hitting me on the head and at the same time, a knife stabbing through my heart... I woke up in shock, traumatized and shaking with sweat and tears...

I couldn't confirm it was a dream or it was real... The only thing I did was to msg my dear to ensure that he was well and alive in the wee hours of 2am... Thankfully, everything was just a dream...

The impact of the dream was huge... it affected me for a few weeks and even till today, I can still feel the pain whenever I see something similar to my dream...

And then finally it hit me... This is how it will feel like if I will to lose my loved one..
Parents have been with us for at least 2 decades and we all know deep in our heart that they will leave earlier than us...

But not our loved ones, our partners ... They are supposed to be with us, accompany us throughout...
What will happen if your life partner just suddenly depart from this world after spending a decade with you?

I guess that's why depression can set in, illness can occur... because the emotional pain is too much to bear for anyone... I had a feel of what's it like in my dream... Mind you, it's just a dream and even though I still feel it now and then, it's probably just 10% of the real thing...

There is no way to avoid death... The only method is to accept that this is a fact that will happen to everyone... Every single day, someone's loved one dies.. Imagine the pain that they go through...

Treasure every single moment with your loved one and do not take it for granted... You never know when it will end... Maybe 10 yrs, 1 yr, 1 month, 1 day or even 1 second...

I love you my dear and will treasure you as much as possible... Thanks for everything, you are the best thing that can ever happen to me... I love you...