Sunday, April 16, 2006

Death Preparations

Title: Death Preparations
There is a weird topic that probably only me and Delphine can talk about it like any other normal topic.. That is our death preparations..

It gives us relief when we know that in case anyone of us goes first, there is the other party who will know what to do..

Well, I just gave her my list and constantly updating her on the tasks..

Firstly, my funeral will be a happy one with no tears but only laughters..

Secondly, there will not be any flowers wreaths or incense papers burning.. Pls send all those money to charity instead..

Thirdly, I want a cremation and ashes to be dropped into the sea.. So that there is no need to waste space..

Fourthly, 3/4 of my money goes to my parents, the remaining will be donated to temple and charitable organisations.

Fifth, no ugly makeup nor ugly clothes to be worn on my corpse..

Sixth, my diaries shall all be burned away..

Seventh, my personal message will be passed onto people that are significant to me via Delphine.

Of course, this is the WHAT IF case.. But no one knows what will happen one second later..
Death is unavoidable, rather than avoiding it, may as well handle it as well as one can..
It does not make the end.. but rather it marks a new beginning.. Death and birth are just processes.. Hopefully, when the day comes, I will face it with courage too..

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