Foundation level as Friends..

A solid foundation is important for a building...it ensures that the building will not collapse in the long run..at least not within 99 years under the HDB...

Dealing with relationships be it family, friends or lovers, its the same too.. There is a need to have a stable level before higher levels can be built upon.

Before the parties reveal their inner self, its always the being polite and diplomatic surface. Then slowly, the real self will appear. There are exceptions however. Some people prefer to be their true nature letting most of their inner thoughts reveal bu not entirely..

Only when the foundation is strong, the parties can proceed to become close friends then gradually lovers likewise for family as well.. Lovers are the best of friends as they can consult in each other.. Its a tedious process but its worth the try to truly understanding a person...

There are so many diverse personalities due to the past and present deeds we have done. The environments that we are being brought in play a major role in shaping the character and behaviour too..

Take the effort to understand a person well and you are bound to learn something from it...